Café: (n) a small restaurant selling light meals and drinks.
All of my life I have been surrounded by friends who enjoy discovering out-of-the-way, little cafes.
I am a big person. (By big, I’m referring to the size of my body, not necessarily my soul.)
So these little places are tedious, if not arduous, for me to negotiate. The tables are tiny and the chairs provide a landing area for only one of my butt-cheeks.
Then there are the toy meals:
Croissants–which can be consumed with three bites.
A Danish–which doesn’t really taste that much better than the one I once ate at a flea-bag motel off their free Continental breakfast.
And of course, the over-emphasis on the coffee and tea.
My friends sit there, cross their legs and chat with one another, munching on the tiny provisions as if they have found a precursor to heavenly bliss.
I am uncomfortable. I am misplaced. I am a dog at a cat rodeo. I am an apolitical advocate who finds himself at a get-out-the-vote rally.
Over the years, I have learned ways to excuse myself from such awkward pretense.
So now when I hear the word “café ,” my brain just naturally translates it into “caf-nay.”