Characteristic: (adj) typical of a particular person, place, or thing.
You have to be pretty bad to not want to be a good person.
What’s missing is the listing of the characteristics required to put a “good” in front of your “person”–making you priceless to the human tribe.
I’m sure everybody could derive a list, and each lineup would have its own merit, but may I offer mine?
Let’s call it the top five things that make our race tolerable instead of insufferable:
Of course, you don’t get to be humble until you do something great, but once you have an accomplishment, the quality of the endeavor should be enough without demanding too much laud from others or indulging in self-worship.
The best way to be annoying to other friends in your circle is to be the last one to realize you have a problem. Of course, there’s a danger with incriminating yourself too much, but most of us will never get near that cliff.
If you can see your shortcomings, you don’t have to go through the pain of being alienated because of them.
Stop being part of the unrealistic horde which insists that “change is too hard.”
Everything has come through evolution, so it is safe to assume that the process is continuing right now, in your life.
So change before you are forced to, or before you’re lying flat on your back because the cosmic steamroller just flattened your dreams.
- Don’t judge under any circumstances.
Even if it’s late at night, you’re with a friend and you’re in the mood to gossip–don’t. Go to bed and get some sleep.
You and I never have the right to evaluate the lives of other people. Even if an angel comes and whispers in your ear, telling you of the iniquity of another traveler, you should compliment the angel on its wings, but ignore the message.
- Good cheer.
There are times that depression and sadness overtake us all–but as much as is within us, we should allow the paint brush of gratitude to be the artist of our portrait. It makes us viable–and more than that, it makes us reliable.
There you go. One man’s limited scope in describing the characteristics of a good person.
In my opinion, all you have to do to become a bad person is look at the list and insist “it’s a free country, and nobody’s business but your own.”