If I save somebody’s life, how important will I be to them after a couple of weeks?
They could always make reference to the fact that they value my gift of salvaging them from death. But we really wouldn’t be able to hang out together. It would be awkward, wouldn’t it?
But if we became friends, then the sphere of influence would be greater. He or she could come over to my house, barbecue, watch a movie, laugh, talk about family or commiserate about the job.
But somewhere along the line, this new friend would have to go home. He or she would not be allowed into my inner sanctum of privacy and thoughts.
This is why we get married–so we can have someone who saves us from our loneliness, becomes our best friend, but also becomes entwined with us emotionally and helps us make decisions which steer our mission.
I know it is the great jubilation of the Christian faith to continually discuss the atonement from sin by Jesus dying on the cross.
But once the realization hits you and you’ve achieved salvation, to have it constantly brought to your remembrance and hung over your head is…well, as I said, rather awkward.
Somewhere along the line this savior needs to become a friend. Then he can hang out.
He can become part of the everyday life that forms the blood and tissue of your being.
And if you take the time to learn the philosophy of this savior–the impetus that caused him to want to be your redeemer–then you can actually marry yourself to his principles and create a lifestyle rather than just an atoning event.
I think church fails because it tries to turn an atonement into a friendship.
- Atonement is beautiful.
- But friendship is better.
And allowing yourself to come into covenant with the Golden Rule is what is truly life-changing.
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