Away: (adv) at a distance from a particular place, person, or thing.
It really is. Even when people inform me that they were in an accident or were surprised by a dilemma, as I sit and listen to them talk, I realize there were several signposts along the way, telling them of pending difficulty.
Is it our sense of optimism or our laziness that keeps us from heeding the calls which forewarn of misfortune? Because after all–or maybe during all–it’s about discovering when to be close and when to be away.
And when it comes to the status of away, it is much better to go away than it is to be told to stay away.
You will get warnings when it seems that your involvement is no longer beneficial, and if you can quietly bow out and move on to the next possibility, you will never have to feel the embarrassment of banishment.
But the reason we fight is because we don’t know when to go away and we wait for someone else to tell us to stay away.
This has speckled my existence with annoying bouts of insecurity, because I experienced rejection instead of merely stepping into the shadows, on to the next possibility around the corner.
How can we know when it’s time to be away?
- We are no longer edifying the situation.
- We are taken for granted
- People have to be free–and in this case, that means free of us
There’s a tremendous blessing in finding yourself away from circumstances which have left you stagnant. It can be uncomfortable; it can be sad.
But in the long run, it is the pruning of our tree that allows us to grow new branches.
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