Our society has become obsessed with converse thinking.
In other words, if you have the boldness to make a statement or take a stand on an issue which you feel is particularly important, there is always some cynical, perhaps even jaded, passerby, who will pull an obscure point of reference to disprove your contention and try to show it to be ridiculous or foolish idealism.
I mean, you can walk in a room and say to the gathered that we all should learn to love one another, and at the end of half an hour, the denouncing voices will explain that this kind of general affection among humans is impossible because of the dangers of crime and even terrorism.
Never is this more true than on the subject of the homeless.
I have often presented the theory to those around me that it doesn’t hurt one little bit to pull a dollar out to help folks on the street, without feeling the need to inquire of their intentions or plans on using your 100 pennies.
I am frequently argued to the mat by those who present a contrary view, insisting that I am emboldening these individuals to remain without solvency.
Sometimes I am informed how crazy they are.
A certain handful of detractors cite statistics concerning the criminal records of those without a place to sleep.
They will also point out that the homeless and the bag ladies are a blight on the community and needn’t be so because there are agencies to assist them in finding their place in society.
Yes, I will tell you, we live in a converse world.
Those who have decided to become our leaders feel it is essential to present the darker side of every issue as a precautionary tale, lest we become too open to one another and end up with messy conflicts through our generosity.
I am weary of it.
I don’t want to know what the bag lady is going to do with my dollar. If she needs a cheap bottle of wine to get her through the day, then God bless her.
And God damn me if I forbid it out of my self-righteous, superior attitude.
If we don’t get out of our converse thinking, we’re going to begin to believe that there are no absolutes which lead us to goodness.
Instead, in trying to find the potholes… we will cease to build roads.
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