Burly: (adj) large and strong; heavily built.
How strong does a man have to be to attract a woman?
How feminine should a lady be to draw the attention of a male suitor?
For years I’ve been concerned about being masculine. It’s not that I lack the appearance of being burly, but I’ve still been self-conscious about whether my pursuits in music and the arts might make me come off a bit “soft.” And God forbid a man should look soft–we believe that’s reserved for the female of our species. And God curse the woman who comes across as strong. That should be relegated to the male counterparts.
While trying to figure out what makes a man and a woman significantly noticeable, we’ve completely lost sight of what it means to be a human because both the female and the male are unwilling to give up any magical turf to comply and become equitable to one another.
I like strong women. It doesn’t make me weak, just as a woman liking a strong man doesn’t render her submissive.
At my advanced stage in life, would I still suck my gut in and over-rate my muscles when walking around a swimming pool?
I hope to God not.
But I’m greatly comforted that my blubbery body helps me avoid the deception.