Cede: (v) to give up power or territory
The fear of insignificance generates the arrogance of self-destruction.
It’s the mixed message given by our educational system, which simultaneously insists that “hard work will produce a payday” but “self-promotion is better.”
It’s so easy to get confused. It’s very possible to lose sight of one’s soul in pursuit of gaining the whole world.
What can I afford to give up without feeling like I’m vanquished?
- I don’t have to be well-known if I’m known for doing well.
- It is much more important for me to be happy for what I do instead of being lauded for it.
- I am convinced that my meter of measuring my progress is much more sensitive than that of society–so as long as I am clicking my own goals, I do not need to be applauded by the masses.
- And finally, I can’t give up something I don’t really have. The delusion that we possess certain amounts of respect, power or position causes us to battle against forces that are not really fighting against us.
A great man once said that “he that would gain his life must lose it.” Even though initially this seems counter-intuitive, a second looks tells us that chasing a dream which is never meant to be is the certain way to destroy the beauty of heart’s desire.