Dazed: (adj) to be stunned or stupefied
Perhaps the worst piece of advice I’ve ever received is, “Keep your cool.”
The words would be unnecessary to share if I weren’t in an environment where I had been dazed by a predicament or circumstance that left me reeling.
We Americans are very big on “cool.”
Often we even avoid apologizing because it doesn’t seem cool.
We certainly shirk our duties because we’re afraid it will be made obvious that we aren’t cool.
But as human beings, the chances of us being cool—especially when we want to be—are slim.
We’re just not cool.
Some people would take offense over this. I understand that.
It might even seem uncool to admit that you’re not cool.
But there is so much going on in the world today—twists, turns, tragedies, disasters and sometimes just a spirit of meanness—that if you have an ounce of sensitivity, it will pound on you.
You will feel dazed.
Often the word “confused” follows.
There is the unnecessary step.
I don’t know if I can pull off “dazed and cool,” but I certainly don’t need to be “dazed and confused.”
There is no plot against me.
There are no hellish demons chasing me, trying to destroy my life.
But there is a very specific natural order—and a scientific kingdom that needs to be honored to survive the pathway of Earth journey.
Mingled into all of it is a little word called “chaos.”
And even though chaos makes everything balanced (because it truly does rain on the just and the unjust) it can unfortunately leave us so dazed that we’re confused.
There is a maneuver I’ve learned.
When I’m going along with my plan and it begins to fall apart, I sit down.
If there’s a chair nearby, that’s fine.
If not, any piece of ground will do.
Because the worst thing to do when you’re dazed is to pretend like everything’s fine. That’s not cool—it’s dangerous.
And when you’re sitting, you’re much less likely to have your head whirl in confusion.
I may never be cool, but I don’t have to be confused.
When I become dazed, I’ll just find a place and sit for a spell—until the brain clears and sense returns.