Words from Dic(tionary)
Alacrity: (n) brisk and cheerful readiness: e.g. she accepted the invitation with alacrity.
I think the greatest debate in the human family is this: to understand that there is a difference between what we think should be and what we are actually stuck with.
Lots of folks spend a lot of their quality time complaining about the injustice, unfairness and inequity of what has been perpetrated against their circumstances, only to discover that “raging against the machine” does not seem to turn off the engine.
It’s really a simple principle.
If you decide to manufacture good cheer as a reaction to everything that happens in your life, at least you buy time to receive the opportunity to rectify the violation.
Sometimes it seems like Mother Nature and humanity have joined together to piss us off just enough to have us impudently stomp our feet and run from the room without ever contributing our talent or faithfulness. Yes, it is possible to be rendered ineffective, not because we lack ability, but because we cannot maintain stability.
Alacrity–it’s a decision:
- I would rather be at peace with myself than right.
- I would rather produce a sense of humor and cheer than be acknowledged.
- I would rather reflect on better ideas than park my soul in the middle of a busy freeway, inviting others to bang into me.
Is it easy to do? I guarantee you–it is no more difficult than finding yourself fighting with others for the rights to your life, which they have already decided not to grant you.
It’s a great word–because it is the belief that as long as we’re pursuing a sense that is common and a joy that is needful, to fake it is truly to make it.
The play-acting is well worth the effort.
