A-OK: (adj) in good order (e.g. everything will be A-OK)
Is my “A-OK” your “great” or could it be that my “fantastic” is your “mediocre?” A-OK has validity only if the people delivering the report are reliable.
This has come up many times in my life, but especially in the realm of parenting children.
I would often ask one of my sons to go down and clean up the garage, and when I inquired about the success of the project, I got the following replies:
- “Pretty good.”
- “It was really a mess down there.”
- “I did my best.”
- And even, “Come on, Dad. It’s just a garage.”
You can see how these responses are not confidence building. The problem is, I had to filter what they said through who they were.
We now live in a time when “A-OK” is spoken too easily, with the hope that the lacking in effort will be made up for by either luck, God, or more than likely, the patient repair of other folks who follow us.
Sometimes it terrifies me to get in a car and drive along, realizing that it’s being made with the quality control of today’s corporate thinking.
Whatever happened to pride in work?
I know we have the adage of “going the second mile,” but truthfully, that statement lacks any punch if we all have not pre-determined the length of the first mile.
Because every day of my life, I meet individuals who are convinced they have done more than they needed to, never realizing they have fallen short of adequate.
I have rejected “A-OK” from my lingo.
So what I chose to do instead is to quickly explain the choices I have made in my efforts, and then allow other people to ascertain the status.
Because if we do not discover what is bare minimum, we will begin to dangerously flirt with incompetence.
So the greatest danger we face is our own sleepy attempts to cut corners … and end up cutting ourselves.
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