Approval (n): the action of officially agreeing to something or finding something acceptable
It’s not easy to get approval.
Matter of fact, most human systems are set up to filter out the riff-raff, and in so doing, often discourage those who are not as tenacious as they should be, but still possess value.
This is the problem with the committee.
There are four types of people who populate committees, and are therefore in charge of approval:
1. The individual who has legitimate concern about an issue and wants to make sure good things happen.
2. The person who has an ax to grind and disagrees with most of the decisions made by previous committees and wants to be there to rectify the situation.
3. The person who can’t say no to the job but really has little interest in it, and therefore is swayed back and forth by the majority.
4. That guy or gal who feels it is their duty to say no to most things–otherwise affairs may get out of hand. And simultaneously, they hope to be known as the person who stood against something that turned out to be really bad.
I have spent most of my life trying to avoid seeking approval.
It’s not that I don’t want input and opinions, it’s just that in the pursuit of approval, the wheels of progress grind to a screeching halt and the vehicle which was taking us to our future plans suddenly is parked, looking like it doesn’t run.
Approval is hard to get and because of that, we have a tendency to be stingy in giving it to others. So my feeling on the issue is that I welcome you to have insights on what I do as long as you understand that I’m going to do something.
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