“He’s just a kid.”
I remember how I used to hate that statement, popped off by careless adults when they didn’t particularly favor some suggestion I made when I was much younger.
Such a cheap shot.
Even though holier books promote the notion that “out of the mouth of babes” come words of wisdom, we still contend that some accumulation of years is necessary to guarantee the validity of a thought.
It’s become the way we debate: we don’t consider an opinion. We don’t weigh the ideas based upon history and practicality.
- We attack people.
- We limit them by education.
- We condemn them by age.
- And we most certainly cubby-hole them by gender.
I remember one day, I was having a conversation with a couple of colleagues, and my young son, Jerrod, who was seven at the time, interrupted and voiced an insight. I could tell by looking at the faces of my friends that they not only were perturbed with the intrusion, but had already decided to ignore the little fella’s questioning.
They were further surprised when I stopped our dialogue, leaned down to him and said, “Now, what did you say?”
The fact was, his particular inquiry into what we were talking about was very powerful and important. But it was just easier for them to cast aspersions on him of immaturity because he was short and hadn’t had enough birthdays.
Let me say it out loud:
I don’t care if you’re conservative; I don’t care if you’re liberal.
If you’re Muslim, Christian, Jew, Hindu or any other faith, it is not significant to me.
I am not going to condemn you by association to organizations or cliques that are targets for my nasty tongue.
I will hear you out.
I will tell you where I agree.
I will tell you what I find curious.
And I also will inform you where I think your presentation is insensitive to history and impractical for humans.
Aspersions are the subterfuge we use to promote our prejudice and bigotry … while seeming to do it with wit instead of the whip.
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