Every time I’ve cut myself, there’s been blood, treatment and eventually, healing.
It’s a good process.
The body seems to know how to mend itself quite well.
It astounds me that we have more concern for our physical well-being than we do for the cuts that happen to our emotions, our soul and even our minds.
They don’t heal as well.
Since they are not exposed to the air and sunlight for nurturing, they can hide away in a cave and fester with infection.
There are human beings who believe that as long as they don’t produce physical harm to another traveler, that they are not guilty of assault.
But I have found a simple formula to determine whether I am of value to others, or a source of pain–be it accidental. May I share it with you?
1. Unless people are hurting themselves or destroying their lives, bring something to their situation that’s edifying instead of your own opinion, which could easily be disproven as faulty through time.
2. Never assume that the words of anger or frustration spoken against you by friends or strangers are really meant for you, but instead, intended for someone who is not there–or even a “god” who has fallen out of their favor.
3. Always try to close every conversation with a piece of hope.
It has become my great concern in this latter part of my human journey to make sure that first and foremost, above all things…that I try to do no harm.
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