“A money-back guarantee.”
How we love such a promise.
Yet there really are no guarantees. And I’m not speaking this from a jaded position. What I mean is, life maintains its purpose and fairness by being unpredictable.
- For every person who insists they have assurance in their finance, there are stock market crashes and bank closings.
- For every individual who puts great confidence in beauty, there is the ever-present specter of aging.
- Even in religion, the “blessed assurance” that “Jesus is mine” is merely a promise of a heaven which we cannot see.
So I often wonder what value a word like “assurance” actually has in the human vocabulary.
Is it merely something we demand from other people, so we can be angry with them later when they turn out to be as inconsistent as we are?
Is it a self-righteous decision to hold some things in place, with the ridiculous assumption that change is normally for the worse?
I don’t know.
But as I’ve gotten older–and hopefully, a little more mature–I’ve asked people to make less promises and give fewer assurances.
Because I think a wiser philosophy is that since we cannot make ourselves taller or lengthen our lives, we should be content to accept the value of the moment for the beauty it possesses instead of trying to lock in a permanent situation … which is usually beyond the scope of us mere mortals.
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