“Gnashing of teeth.”
It is one of those phrases from the Good Book, referring to people who get so angry that they would just like to bite somebody.
So to make sure that we don’t come across like wild wolves, we have come up with more civilized ways to gnash on people, without extracting blood.
But here’s the fact: nobody is willing to admit that they gossip.
So how can you tell if you have fallen into the nasty tendency to become an emotional vampire?
- If you’re discussing with another person and the person you’re discussing walks into the room and you tell your friend to “hush up” so you can get back to it later.
- If you have to preface what you say with, “I don’t mean this in a bad way…”
- If you finish 20 minutes of railing against someone and then decide to close it with prayer.
- If you make sure that you attack weaker people so that they have no power to strike back against you.
- If you use Biblical or psychological terminology to reinforce your theory of someone else’s perversion.
- If you make any kind of pact of silence in order to ensure that your victim is not aware of your true feelings.
- If you feel a little greasy and stinky when somebody preaches against gossip.
Gossip is the true sign of insecurity:
It’s projecting onto others our failures.
It is the absence of letting our true yes be yes and our no to resound as a no.
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