Bunch: (n) a number of things, typically of the same kind, growing or fastened together.
We frustrate ourselves by thinking that gaining approval has much of a chance of coming our way. Here is life in a nutshell (though I don’t know why you’d want to place it in there):
- “I like it.”
- “I enjoy it.”
- “It is accepted.”
Too often we make our decisions based on whether something will be accepted. For instance:
If you’re a writer, you may try to pen the perfect American novel, suited to the present taste of the populace.
If you’re a musician, you may choose to chase down the current beat and sounds that are rattling the charts.
And if you’re just an average person who has something you like to do, you may find yourself tempering it to gain favor with the general population.
Since acceptance comes from humans and they are totally fickle, trying to gear your life to gain their “happy face” is frustrating, if not hopeless.
So why not go for the first two? Do I like it and do I enjoy it?
If you’re waiting for a bunch of people to come along and confirm your sanity, your value, your talent, your good looks or even your race, you will probably spend a lot of time at the bus stop, reading novels.