Byword: (n) expression summarizing characteristics
What do people think when they hear my name? That’s damn important.
Am I so mixed up that those who know me find it difficult to pinpoint a continuing virtue or a clinging vice?
Am I constantly reinventing myself to such an extent that no one is sure what I treasure?
Even though we extol the value of choice, it is actually a blessing. Many times we get no choice. All we have is the overwhelming evidence of how we selected to be known, punctuated by countless irrefutable examples.
What is my byword?
- Is it selfish?
- Is it aging?
- Is it oblivious?
Each one of these words has attended a master class of achievement.
Frankly, no one assumes we’re oblivious–we have to prove it through our complete mental absence.
No one assumes we’re kind unless we have extended kindness.
No one insists we’re old unless we’re constantly complaining about our pains.
So here’s my advice: pick a profile and profile it daily.