Chain: (n) a sequence of items of the same type forming a line
“A chain is as strong as its weakest link.”
That little piece of platitude is tossed off all the time. It’s really quite arrogant.
But in measuring the value of your chain, it’s always a good idea to realize that there are different types of weakness.
For instance, being tough and inflexible can be a great weakness if you’re trying to establish a tender relationship.
Touting your sexual prowess to a room full of bored hearers is equally annoying and comical.
Establishing the superiority of one gender over another is the propagation of ugly myths.
There is a reason that some things link. We don’t link together simply because “we’re all strong” and able to handle equal burdens. We usually link together because one of us feels the need for another, and the other requires our presence.
We err when we try for perfection.
No one likes perfect.
No one believes in it.
We appreciate it when weakness is acknowledged instead of denied. This allows us to build up the chain, and gives an opportunity to the link–to establish fortitude.