Clarify: (v) to make things less confused
In our attempts to discover right and wrong, good timing and bad timing, and safe or unsound, we have become excellent liars.
Not willing to take a chance on sharing what we feel–out of a deep fear that we might be incorrect–we have developed a series of “wedge
statements” which seem to fit into any given clumsy moment, offering absolutely no insight or means of clarifying.
“We have that under advisement”
“That’s something we were just talking about the other day”
“We have a committee checking into that”
“We are collecting data”
“Of course we want to do what’s right for the American people”
“This is no time to make rash decisions”
All of these squeaky-clean, insipid excuses may avoid committment, but have more and more of our citizens ending up committed (mainly to mental hospitals).
Somewhere along the line, you have to clarify your position, even if you happen to be completely out-of-whack.
After all, holding a cough in does not get rid of the foul mucus. Likewise, holding in an opinion does not dispel ignorance. It just allows it to grow like mushrooms in a dark cave.
“Let me clarify my position” is not an attempt to prove your point. It lets those around you have an awareness and sensitivity of the emotional air you are presently breathing–so they will know how to offer you oxygen.