Coated: (n) a layer of covering
I, for one, appreciate and enjoy the candy coating on my aspirin.
I know it’s just a brief whiz-by of sweetness, but it keeps me from tasting any of that aspirin flavor that sticks in the back of your throat and makes you cough.
It’s just damned considerate.
This crossed my mind about twenty years ago, but I didn’t really do anything about it until last year. (Sometimes it takes nineteen years to work up the gumption to follow through on one of your own pieces of brilliance.)
But twenty years ago, I thought to myself, the problem with human relationships is that they aren’t candy-coated.
We walk around with some adult, grown-up notion that things should be nasty, and the more bitter they are the better it is–because we’ll end up with such a great, complaining story.
It wasn’t until last year that I realized that this applied to me. I was waiting for somebody else to put it into practice. But then I sat down one afternoon and realized that I am sometimes hard to swallow:
I can be bitter
I can be nasty
I can be sour.
And the truth of the matter is, my responsibilities require that I use candor and truthfulness to get the job done. After all, can there be anything worse than a writer who’s a liar–which may force him to write more lies later?
Yet there are human ingredients of sweetness that can be added to truth, so that we can feel love as we embrace reality.
May we never lose kindness.
May we never forget the power of being gentle.
May we always take into consideration a sense of humor.
And certainly, may our daily lives be blessed by the power of apology and the simplicity of a thank you.