Cadre: (n) a small group of people specially trained for a particular purpose or profession.
“I’ve gotta be me.”
I have found that the word “solo” is a great synonym for “alone.” I don’t like to be alone.
I don’t need other folks to make me feel valuable, or to surround me with a sense of inclusion. It’s just divinely remarkable to encounter individuals who share common anything with one another.
- Common taste.
- Common talent.
- Common faith.
- Common appetites.
- Or even common foibles.
Human beings were never intended to be perfect and can be quite obnoxious when pursuing it. We’re at our best when we hang around with each other, admit our weaknesses and garner energy off the cadre of souls huddled in our corner.
When I have attempted to be autonomous, it was like I found myself standing naked in a room full of doctors. It was inevitable they would find something wrong with me.
Am I hiding? Perhaps.
Am I weak? Most certainly.
Am I benefitting from interaction with others?