by J. R. Practix

Achieve: (v.) to reach or attain a desired objective, level or result by effort, skill or courage.
If we just realized that contradictions are what drive us crazy, we could begin to identify them, expose them as the charlatans they are and move on to better aspirations.
This is certainly obvious in our society’s penchant to advertise self-esteem and glorify achievement at the same time. I am told “I am fine the way I am” as I am invited to celebrate the success of another individual, who instead of being satisfied with his or her abilities, pursued excellence. How can you insist that people are acceptable in their present form, and still alienate them from the feeling of victory which comes from pursuing their talents?
I just don’t get it. We have to either decide that mediocrity is commendable or we have to stop giving awards at the Superbowl. If the Number 30 team in the league is just as good as the Number 1 team because they can “suit up,” then why do we have tournaments to declare a final winner?
Which one is it? Are we sufficient in our present status? Or do we need to achieve?
Does God’s grace cover all of our numerous iniquities and stupidities? Or does He extend grace to us to grant us time to do better?
Until we resolve this dilemma in our society, we will be yanking on the emotions of human beings, at first granting them absolution for their less-than-adequate efforts, and then criticizing them for being lethargic.
Here’s what I think:
- Encouragement is a good thing if it is honestly telling people that they need to achieve.
- And achievement is tremendous if we allow people the dignity and honor of growing, feeling appreciated through their efforts.
I don’t think we should compare people who don’t compare in ability, nor do I think we should take individuals who have been given much and cut them slack because they don’t wish to participate.
Human motivation is really quite simple–if you have much, much is expected of you. If you have a little, a little is expected of you.
And if you want to achieve greatness, take your “little” … and multiply it.