Average: (adj) mean or median norm, meaning something that represents a middle point.
It caused me to become a better man, dad, writer, musician, driver, shopper, handler of money and general human being.
The day I realized that everything in life eventually averages out and lands in the realm of modicum was the time that I finally knew how to set my goals.
Let me give you an example:
When I looked over at the batch of children hatched from my lust and whim, I thought to myself, what do I want these little dudes to be in 25 years?
At first, my list of requests and preferences was too long. And then I came up with three words:
With that in mind, I developed my parenting approach.
To make sure they were solvent, I never gave them money without giving them work. Why? Because the only ways to get money other than working for it is winning the lottery and stealing. You can see why I chose what I did. They did not always like the work, and their work was usually pretty mediocre. But even an average work ethic pushed them to the front of the class.
To make them loving, I forced them to go see people who were not very lovely–hurting, frustrated, addicted and poverty-stricken. They were somewhat repulsed, but still ended up much more empathetic than some of their friends.
And finally, creative. Every time they wanted me to buy them something, do something for them or get them off the hook for using their talents, I refused and made them produce something with their own hearts and hands, even though I must tell you, the result was often so ugly that I needed to quickly bury it in the back yard.
Still, they knew they were responsible to come to Earth and provide resources instead of just consume them.
Since human beings will generally end up average, it’s a good idea to have a standard. That’s why we keep Santa Claus around–he reminds us of the importance of giving.
And we maintain a belief in God, although we’re not sure…because He encourages us to find our better humanity.
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