Connive: (v) to secretly allow bad things to occur
Do you want to live a happier life?
That may sound like the beginning of an infomercial, but there is a way to live a more powerful existence.
Simply make sure you do the things you want to do, not the things other people are doing–and don’t sit around acting discouraged because the world is a mess.
Let’s start off with a cleansing principle:
Your children are your children as long as they live in your house and receive an allowance. Once they leave the house, they may love you dearly, but they yearn to be their own person.
If you follow their careers, their actions and their whims too closely, you will find yourself conniving to either justify what they do or imitate it.
Or take this into consideration:
We may have a government in Washington, D.C. that is corrupt. This does not give us a free pass to come up with our own rendition of corruption. We do not have permission to connive deals and lie to our friends, families and working associates because it appears to be the popular pastime.
Happiness is when you find what you want to do and you do it, even if you’re the only person who has found it.
I want to make it clear–I do love my family, but not enough to follow their ways nor to stall my life to gain their approval.
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