Charisma: (n) compelling attractiveness or charm
I just finished a performance.
I don’t think the audience liked me.
So I asked myself, what did I do wrong?
Always our first inclination. Where is my fault in the matter? It is an agonizing process, but without it, vanity can make us intolerable.
You know what the truth of the matter is? The people who sat and listened may have been with their moms and dads years and years ago and heard one of the parents comment or joke about a heavy-set man walking by, portraying that he was less than acceptable.
Maybe that person just never forgot that little drama. Maybe he or she found themselves trapped in a response that was not his or her own, but so ingrained that it popped out without permission.
Charisma is such a wicked maze of misunderstanding.
For after all, one man’s “beautiful” is another man’s “plain.” And one woman’s “gentle” is another woman’s “boring.”
So what’s the best we can do?
Find our gift, work on our gift, share our gift in good cheer.
For lo and behold, anybody who would benefit from knowing us will certainly find us.