Danger: (n) risk, peril
“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.”
Perhaps danger is in the heart of the fearful.
There is legitimate danger. Becoming too familiar with a tiger during feeding times is not faith, but rather foolishness lending itself to lethal danger.
But some things are not dangerous. Some things are poorly marked that way, by the timid minds of those who are afraid of human freedom.
My last year of attending church camp was froth with controversy.
The counselors were convinced that the best way to avoid difficulty was to cut any danger off at the pass. “Danger,” in this case, referred to activities which might stimulate teenagers to think about sex.
It is fascinating to me that once people cross the age of twenty-one, they forget that sex, to a teenager, is not a thought nor a temptation but instead, oxygen to breathe. Curiosity, sensuality, raging hormones and immense amounts of energy always collide in some way to manipulate an indiscretion.
We were given five simple rules for high school campers:
- Boys and girls were never to be left alone without supervision.
- Girls could not wear bathing suits around boys, only knee-length shorts and appropriate tops.
- Dirty jokes were forbidden, and if continued, would result in expulsion from camp.
- Girls would dine with girls and boys with boys.
- When swimming in the lake, a distance of two feet must be maintained between a girl and a guy.
The list ended with this admonition:
“In following these guidelines, we hope to avoid the danger of promiscuity and illicit behavior.”
Yet, nature always makes a way.
That summer, all the guys and girls learned of a cave just outside the camp, which was quickly referred to as “The Humping Hole.”
The girls—adorned in their knee-length shorts—would go in with their favorite guy, and hump through their clothes.
I will tell you—it was much more popular than the class on the missionary journeys of the Apostle Paul.
Girls and guys also learned how to sit in such a configuration that they could hold hands behind their backs, and counselors never saw what was going on.
There was always a way, where there seemed to be no way, for teenagers to be horny.
For you see, the only danger in life is ignorance.
The more you know about a situation and the greater the knowledge you can possess, the better chance you have of escaping tragedy and forming a plan that is blessed by honesty and truly works.