Brag: (n) a boastful statement
“If you don’t toot your own horn, it won’t get tooted.”
This statement is often said in public, and even though most of us are uncomfortable with the “brassiness” of it, we usually let it go by without contradiction.
Actually, I toot my horn so others will tell me how good it is. I require that confirmation.
Does this make me needy? It certainly makes me aware that my own sense of appreciation of my ability has limited quality to my soul.
It’s risky.
Since everybody is tooting their own horn, will they have time to stop and enjoy my melody?
Will I be left in obscurity?
Will I be ignored in favor of other horns which blare louder?
Perhaps. But the problem with bragging is that eventually circumstances arise which demand that we back up what we have claimed. Our reputation is whether or not we can confirm our bragging. If we can’t fulfill what we claimed, we will be deemed liars.
Jesus told a wonderful parable about arriving at a banquet and making a decision not to sit at the head table.
Yes–even if you think you’re worthy of it–even if you were invited to sit there–don’t. Seat yourself with the other guests until your host notices you perched below, and in front of all the attendees, calls you up to a place of honor.
Yes, I like that.
I can avoid bragging by doing amazing work and being discovered by those who are looking for such excellence, who call me up…and blow my horn for me.
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