Climate: (n) the weather conditions prevailing in an area
Maybe it’s why people hate small-talk.
When you find yourself talking to a stranger, you are nearly compelled to discuss the weather.
It is rarely suitable–the weather, that is. We always seem to have a preference that’s different than today’s forecast. Every once in a while, a climate will roll around that makes us smile because it fits into an ideal we established in our minds when we were much younger. But rarely.
The weather woman down here in Florida has been going through a series of flip-flops and somersaults. Two days ago, she was very concerned that we had not had enough rain. Yesterday, she felt it was unseasonably hot. And today, she lamented that the rains had arrived, but they decided to bring along “storms.”
The weather is the crucible–where we express our inner dissatisfaction with life, Mother Nature, circumstances, our relationships and even God.
So because of our grumpiness, we may be in a climate that is unsuitable, creating a climate of human interaction which is even more cloudy.
Auspicious (adj): conducive to success; favorable.
“An auspicious occasion.”
Eat an overpriced dinner
Make small talk
That would be a breakdown of the auspicious occasions I have participated in during my life.
I scheduled these dates on my calendar and I looked forward to them, because they made me feel that I was successful, part of the gang and moving in the right direction. Yet as I look back on them, they ended up being some of the least important, most boring and useless moments of my life.
I don’t think any of us really grasp what an “auspicious occasion” truly is in relationship to our journey.
This is why we are dumb.
And we become a little less stupid as we begin to realize that the moments which are relegated to insignificance are when we actually define ourselves and our ultimate potential.
A homeless person walks up and asks for help.
My little son wants a book read to him just when my favorite TV show is coming on.
We’re beginning a family vacation and we walk out to a flat tire, and my entire clan looks in my direction to see if I’m going to solve the problem or melt down.
I have a chance to be creative, but it is a brief chance.
I know my wife, my child, my friend or my lover needs to be comforted and I must escape my pride and take the time to put my arms around them
These are the auspicious occasions.
These are the times we either pump in fuel, creating a confidence for our lifestyle, or we drain ourselves of such gusto by self-incrimination.
Here’s a simple thought:
If you have to put a tie on to impress someone, in two weeks it probably won’t matter.
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