Buffer: (n) something that prevents conflict
A book called Isaiah refers to it as “a repairer of the breach.”
It is an individual–or maybe even group–who decides that holding one opinion or another in reverence does not grant the equity and generosity of spirit that is necessary to allow for tender human interaction.
Over the years, such a position has been deemed anemic or ill-defined. We are told that the most important thing is to believe in something and then cling to it in spite of how many people object to the position.
That style of living has left us at odds, seeking out camps of culture, where we pretend to be equal with those around us while secretly feeling that our clan is superior.
God knows we need a buffer.
We need people who know that the greatest accomplishment in the human race is to be a peace-maker.
It doesn’t make us evasive or lily-livered–rather, desirous of the “oil of gladness,” to lubricate all human relationships.
Without this buffer we bang up against each other, and pretty soon we’re so bruised that it takes less banging to bring pain. Eventually we are so angry about any interaction that we either hurt one another or we run away from each other in horror.
It begins with a simple understanding: there is no way at all that I can be better than you.
Even if I believed I was, God, our Creator, is no respecter of persons.