Charity: (n) the voluntary giving of help, typically in the form of money, to those in need.
“I’m no charity case!”
It is a statement often flung in my direction when I’m attempting to be generous to someone who obviously could use some bolstering.
In viewing my abundant life, there have been many times when I have possessed finance to fund an unnecessary, extravagant dinner–and also specific occasions when a dollar bill lit up and danced before my eyes because its arrival was truly divinely inspired.
If we go with the Old English definition of charity–which is love–the desperation each of us possesses to be loved is incomprehensible.
Denying it makes us look like foolish, pouting children.
Demanding it too often has the whiff of the charlatan.
So I have a simple saying in my life:
“May those around me who happen to arrive at just the right moment to come to my aid find me busy doing my best, unaware that they are on their way.”